1.Respect the rights of others and act in a manner deserving of respect. Remember the credo of safe, sane and consensual.... coming in out of the blue and grabbing someone without their consent or making demands as if you already had a D/s relationship with them will be cause for immediate removal in short order if not ceasing and desisting. It certainly won't make you very popular either.......

2. Remember that tolerance of the many branches of the Lifestyle which are practiced is a "must" in this room. No one here is "better than" anyone else because they choose to express theirself in a way differently than another.... nor is anyone "lesser than" anyone else for the same reason. This extends to all levels of BDSM, fetishes, sexual orientations and lifestyles with the legally imposed exceptions of "underage" or "beastiality" types of interests.

3. Open scening, sexual activity and nudity are welcome here and if offended by such or underage please do NOT enter, nor shall it be tolerated for those not comfortable with these things to make those participating in them in the room uncomfortable for interacting in this manner. It is their right as per the room rules to do so, not yours to judge them. Period. In fact, enjoy the show and maybe learn a few things if you like *sly winks*... but don't "butt in" or ask a myriad of questions while the scening etc is going on. It's rude for one thing and for another how would you like it if someone was standing in your home while you are ummm "busy" asking a zillion and one questions or making unsolicited comments....esp negative ones.

A few reminders...

While you may cap your name, this is not going to automatically grant you recognition and respect as a Dominant. It will simply be taken as an indication that you are not wishing to interact in submissive mode at the moment and while the submissives will be expected to show politeness they will NOT have to instantly obey any commands you issue simply on account of a capped name. Conversely, lowercasing your name is not going to automatically grant you the respect or recognition as a submissive either. How you handle yourself is far more important to Us as an indicator of deserving respect and recognition in these things than how you case your name.

Collars are taken seriously in the Power Exchange. Any attempting to "use" a sub/slave beyond the limits set by their Dominant or who try to "steal" a sub/slave that is collared from their Dominant will find theirself in instant hot water. Conversely, you are expected to respect the limits that a Dominant has in any extracurricular activities as agreed upon between them and their sub/slave(s). And remember, Collars are not the equivalent of giving a girl your high school letter jacket or some sort of token of love. Its a commitment.